The Mathematics of Momentum
Why one step forward, two steps back might still be progress—and what your brain isn’t telling you
There’s a quiet equation many people carry without realizing it:
Forward = success
Backward = failure
It’s clean. Logical. Reassuring.
And almost entirely wrong.
Because in real life—biological life, psychological life, human life—progress doesn’t follow arithmetic. It follows something closer to wave patterns, feedback loops, and recalibration cycles.
Which means the experience you’ve likely had…
- One step forward, two steps back
- Two steps forward, one step back
…isn’t an anomaly.
It’s the structure.
The Experience That Doesn’t Match the Effort
You change something.
You eat better.
Think differently.
Show up more consistently.
And at first, there’s movement.
Then something shifts.
- Motivation dips
- Old patterns resurface
- Energy fluctuates
- Results become inconsistent
And the mind, always eager to interpret, steps in:
“This isn’t working.”
But that conclusion assumes something important:
That progress should feel stable.
The Missing Variable: Systems Don’t Change Quietly
When you introduce change into any system—your body, your brain, your behavior—you are not simply improving it.
You are disrupting it.
And disruption triggers a process:
- Activation – the system responds to change
- Instability – old patterns compete with new ones
- Reorganization – a new baseline begins forming
Most people interpret stage two as failure.
In reality, it’s the most necessary phase.
A Neuroscience Lens: Prediction vs. Reality
Your brain is not primarily designed for growth.
(Continue reading “The Mathematics of Momentum” on Substack, published 4/27/26.)
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