Why Do Some People Get Side Effects—and Others Don’t?
You’re not “noncompliant.” Your biology might be speaking a different language.
Two people walk into the same pharmacy.
They leave with the same prescription.
Same dosage. Same instructions. Same expectations.
One comes back a few weeks later saying, “I feel better.”
The other returns saying, “I feel worse.”
For years, we’ve explained this gap with familiar phrases:
“Some people are just sensitive.”
“Give it time.”
“You may need to try something else.”
And sometimes, quietly—though rarely said outright—there’s another label:
noncompliant.
But what if that explanation has been missing something essential?
What if the issue isn’t the patient’s behavior…
but the patient’s biology?
The Medication Myth We’ve All Lived With
Modern medicine has done extraordinary things. It has extended life expectancy, reduced suffering, and provided tools that would have seemed miraculous a century ago.
But when it comes to medications—especially in areas like mental health, pain management, and digestive disorders—there’s an unspoken reality:
Much of prescribing still operates on probability.
Antidepressants, for example, often come with a familiar script:
“Let’s try this and see how you do.”
Proton pump inhibitors (PPIs) for reflux?
Pain medications after surgery?
Same story.
Try. Adjust. Try again.
For some people, the first option works beautifully.
For others, it’s a frustrating carousel of side effects, dose changes, and medication switches.
And somewhere along the way, many begin to wonder:
Is something wrong with me?
The Body Is Not a Standard Model
Imagine buying a shirt labeled “one size fits all.”
For some people, it fits perfectly.
For others, it’s too tight. Too loose. Or just… off.
Medications can behave the same way.
The assumption that a single dose will affect everyone similarly overlooks a fundamental truth: the human body is not standardized.
At the center of this difference is something quietly powerful—your metabolism.
Not just how fast you burn calories, but how your body processes chemicals, including medications.
Deep inside the liver, there’s a system of enzymes—tiny biological workers—that break down substances so the body can use them or eliminate them. One of the most important of these systems is often referred to as the CYP pathway.
You don’t need to remember the name.
Just think of it like this:
Some people have a fast-processing system.
Some have a slow one.
And some fall somewhere in between.
The Coffee Test You Didn’t Know You Were Taking
Here’s a simple way to understand it.
Think about caffeine.
Some people can drink a cup of coffee at 9:00 PM and fall asleep by 10:00.
Others have a single cup at noon and are still wide awake at midnight, replaying conversations from 2007.
Same substance. Completely different experience.
Why?
Because their bodies process it differently.
Medications follow a similar pattern.
When “Too Much” Isn’t Too Much
If your body processes a medication slowly, the drug can build up in your system.
What looks like a standard dose on paper may feel like an overdose in practice.
Side effects appear.
Fatigue, nausea, headaches, anxiety—sometimes all at once.
From the outside, it may look like the medication “doesn’t agree” with you.
But from the inside, something more precise may be happening:
Your body isn’t breaking it down at the expected rate.
When “Not Enough” Isn’t Enough
The opposite can also be true.
If your body processes a medication too quickly, it may clear it out before it has time to do its job.
You take it exactly as prescribed.
You follow every instruction.
You give it time.
And still… nothing.
No relief. No noticeable change. Just a quiet frustration that builds with each passing day.
In those cases, it’s easy to assume the medication “isn’t strong enough” or that you “need something else.”
But the deeper issue may not be what you’re taking.
It may be how your body is handling it.
The Space Between “Works” and “Doesn’t Work”
We tend to think of medications in binary terms:
• It works
• It doesn’t work
But in reality, there’s a wide spectrum in between.
Some people experience:
• Subtle benefit with lingering side effects
• Strong benefit with tolerable discomfort
• No benefit with significant side effects
• Or, occasionally, the ideal: strong benefit with minimal issues
These differences aren’t random.
They’re patterned.
And increasingly, we’re learning that part of that pattern is written into our biology.
A Different Way to Interpret the Experience
What if we reframed the conversation?
Instead of:
“Why am I reacting this way?”
We asked:
“What might my body be doing differently?”
That shift may seem small, but it changes everything.
It moves the focus away from blame—
and toward understanding.
It opens the door to curiosity instead of self-doubt.
And for many people, it offers something they haven’t felt in a long time when it comes to their health:
Validation.
The Language Your Body Might Be Speaking
Side effects, lack of response, unusual sensitivity—these may not be inconveniences to push through or signs that you’re “difficult to treat.”
They may be signals.
Your body communicating in the only way it knows how.
Not with words, but with responses.
• “This dose is too much for me.”
• “I’m clearing this too fast.”
• “I need something different.”
The challenge is that, for a long time, we haven’t had a clear way to interpret that language.
So we’ve done the best we could:
We adjusted. Switched. Waited. Hoped.
Sometimes that works.
Sometimes it doesn’t.
A Quiet Shift Is Already Happening
There’s a growing recognition—both inside and outside of healthcare—that variability between people isn’t a complication to work around.
It’s a clue to work with.
Instead of assuming that differences are noise, we’re starting to see them as meaningful signals.
Signals that can guide better decisions.
Signals that can reduce the guesswork.
Signals that can make the process feel less like trial-and-error—and more like something intentional.
You Were Never “The Problem”
If you’ve ever:
• Stopped a medication because the side effects felt unbearable
• Felt discouraged after something “should have worked” but didn’t
• Wondered why your experience didn’t match what you were told to expect
There’s a possibility worth considering:
You weren’t failing the treatment.
The treatment may not have been aligned with you.
That distinction matters.
Because one leads to frustration and self-doubt.
The other leads to questions—and eventually, better answers.
Where This Leaves Us
We’re at an interesting point in time.
The traditional model—where most people start in the same place and adjust from there—is still very much in use.
But alongside it, a more personalized way of thinking is beginning to take shape.
One that recognizes:
• Not all bodies process medications the same way
• Not all side effects are random
• Not all “failures” are failures
And perhaps most importantly:
Not all patients are the same.
A Thought to Take With You
The next time you hear someone say:
“That medication worked great for me.”
And someone else says:
“It made me feel awful.”
Instead of seeing a contradiction…
Consider that you may be looking at two different biological stories.
Same prescription.
Different processing.
Different outcomes.
In a world that’s becoming increasingly personalized—from the way we eat to the way we train to the way we care for our skin—it may not be surprising that medicine is beginning to follow the same path.
More on that soon.
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(Originally published on Substack on 3/23/26.)
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